Just threw everyone out from an impromptu BBQ which is always something I am up for. I generally leave my Sunday afternoons open in case this needs to occur. This is because one of the main reasons I got a home was so that I could host people over, cook for them, and see what types of conversations might come up.
Today was no exception. Did some beer cooked braughts which were delicious and a couple of steaks. The braughts were requested to be burnt and while the gas grill wont quite to the job fully they did come out pretty tasty. The steaks were okay, but I cannot take credit for the marinade. At one point the conversation hit upon things and I mentioned how I need to keep making money cause there are still so many things that I need to get. This divulged into a conversation on buying what you want, versus what you need. I realized that it may have looked like I was acting like I needed to chase the Joneses, and there is a chance that I was.
So no more than 35 seconds go by after they leave and I am reading the weekly newsletter for The Dollar Stretcher and there is a great article about keeping up with the Joneses. It covered a lot of what we had been discussing and there was this little gem:
“Keeping up with the Joneses” syndrome will keep you from achieving the financial success and independence that you desire. So, first and foremost, sit down and think through what you really want. Then set goals as your roadmap to financial success. It’s time that you decide what you want without worrying about the opinions of others.
This applies to much more than our financial lives, but the crossover between listening to the music that you want and living your commercial life the way you want are along the same vein. Everyone else is acting on impulse created by the commercial environment that surrounds them. You have to be aware of this and its influence on your decisions. Conversations are advertisements, the question is who and what are you trying to sell?